L.U.V LOGICALLY SPEAKING
“When you know better you connect better”
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What is Relational Awareness ?
Relational Awareness is the conscious understanding of how your personality, behaviors, and communication style impact others—and how theirs impact you.
It’s the key to building strong, respectful, and meaningful connections—both personally and professionally.
At its core, Relational Awareness teaches us to:
Be mindful of how we show up in relationships.
Recognize and appreciate differences in how others think, feel, and respond.
Navigate communication and conflict with empathy and intentionality.
Think of it as the bridge between emotional intelligence and real-life relationships. It empowers individuals to:
Respond instead of react.
Listen to understand, not just to reply.
Build deeper trust through clarity, compassion, and accountability.
Whether you’re a couple, a colleague, a parent, or a leader—Relational Awareness helps you move beyond assumptions, reduce miscommunication, and create space for authentic connection.
Your Relational Awareness Coaches
The Lady and The Voice—also known as Eileen and Armand—are an Empower Couple, committed to helping individuals, couples, and communities build deeper, healthier relationships through the power of Relational Awareness.
With decades of combined experience in education, media, public speaking, entertainment, nonprofit leadership and Coaching, Eileen and Armand have created a movement rooted in empathy, communication, and personal accountability. Through their signature L.U.V Logically Speaking framework, they teach people how to better understand themselves and others—one conversation and one connection at a time.
They believe that relational growth isn’t just for romantic couples—it’s for anyone who wants to be seen, heard, and understood. Whether you’re in a relationship, navigating friendships and family, working with youth, or leading a team, The Lady and The Voice make Relational Awareness accessible, fun, and culturally relevant.
As Relational Awareness Coaches, their mission is simple:
Listen. Understand. Validate.
That's L.U.V.
💌 A Letter from Eileen and Armand
Hey Family,
Let’s be honest—relationships can be beautiful, but they can also be hard. Whether it’s love, friendship, family, or work, we’ve all had moments where we felt misunderstood, disconnected, or just unsure of how to move forward with someone we care about.
That’s where Relational Awareness comes in.
We like to call it your GPS for human connection—because it helps you understand where you are, where the other person is, and how to move through the space in between with Chemistry, Connection, and Compatibility.
It’s not about fixing people. It’s not about pointing fingers.
It’s about learning how to show up—with accountability, understanding, and grace.
Relational Awareness helps you see beyond the surface. It teaches you how to stop reacting and start relating. How to move from confusion to connection. And how to have real conversations that don’t just sound good—they feel good too.
We’ve been there ourselves.
From moments of silence when one of us shuts down, to over-explaining to be understood, to navigating those “just being real” personalities that feel more like shade than sincerity.
We get it. And we created this work because we know what’s possible on the other side of those moments.
This journey isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present.
It’s about understanding who you are, how you love, how you listen—and how you grow.
If you’re ready to do relationships differently…
If you’re ready to love more intentionally, communicate more clearly, and connect more deeply…
We’re right here with you.
With love and truth,
Eileen & Armand
The Lady and The Voice
Relational Awareness Coaches | Founders of LUV Logically Speaking
When you know better you will connect better
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*Jefferson Award recipients
*Certificate of Special Recognition by Congresswoman Barbara Lee for combatting human trafficking
*Steph Curry/Under Armour Community All-Star Award
*Black Enterprise 100 Men of Distinction
*Certificate of Recognition for Community Service by the University of California Office of the President
*American Cancer Society Emcees of The Year
*Oakland Mayor Libby Schaaf proclaimed May 16th “Armand Carr Day” in the city of Oakland
*Cisco International Influencers of the Year Award
Gladys Knight
MC HAMMER and wife Stephanie Burrel
Angela Yee
Raphael Saadiq
Michelle Ghee
Morris Chestnut
California Attorney General Rob Bonta and his wife California Assembly Member Mia Bonta
Actress Terry J. Vaughn
Flex & Shanice
Actress Dawn Lewis
Actor J. Alphonse Nicholson and his wife Nafeesha
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